
If there's one thing that defines our current generation, it would have to be Facebook. All around the world, first-time acquaintances are exchanging "Facebook-me's" and we can probably all remember the tons of friend requests we sent and received at the beginning of each semester. Facebook statistics show that over 500 million people have an active Facebook account, and the average user spends about 700 million minutes logged on each month (Facebook.com).
Obviously, we probably spend every day on Facebook. Now with mobile Facebook access, it's easier than ever to check your notifications and post a few comments in even the quickest amount of time. Using Facebook every day is fun and sparks new friendships every day, but what other impacts does using Facebook so often have on our everyday lives?
It's interesting to observe the relationships we have on Facebook as opposed to the relationships we have in "real life." There are lots of times that we talk to people online that we never do or would face-to-face. Whether we mean to or not, we find talking over Facebook much easier and comfortable than actually confronted each other. I believe this could be a negative thing. I feel that major social networking sites like Facebook are ruining our social skills. Sure, we gain new "friends" every day and often communicate with them online, but we aren't learning to really connect with them. Our social skills are being brought down by trading the amount of time we spend getting to know each other face-to-face for time that we spend typing messages to each other. First it was the introduction of text messaging that made it harder for the upcoming generation to learn proper telecommunication skills, and now networkings like Facebook are taking over our abilities to be good at really socializing.
I, myself, am always on Facebook and have even encountered those awkward "seeing someone out in public that you only talk to on Facebook" times. It makes me wonder the future of socializing holds for our generation and the ones to come after. Oh yeah, and be sure to click like and share with all your friends on Facebook! ;)
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